Brian Dee’s free seminar on Feb 14th Valentines Day will focus on the three conditions necessary for orgasms to happen and the 5 types of hypnotic orgasms. The workshop is free, but there are only 30 seats available. Couples are encouraged to attend. Not only will mind blowing orgasms be discussed and demonstrated but attendees will find out the types of relationship language patterns that get us in trouble with our partners, how we can avoid them, and a secret technique for using waking suggestions with your partner. These waking suggestions are so strong and yet so easy, participants will be able to use them that night.

Brian Dee is an Erotic Hypnotist based out of Atlanta, GA. He has worked as a comedy stage hypnotist and clinical hypnotherapist for over 15 years. He is on the cutting edge of Erotic Hypnosis development in the US. He is the Dean of OrgasmUniversity.org and Soke/founder of the OrgasmDojo.com where he teaches hypnotic orgasm techniques. Brian is committed to educating others using his approach in safe and effective hypnotic play. His strong hypnotic content enhances experiences in all aspects of erotic play.
Brian says: “The hypnotic process is natural to us and to our lifestyle. These secret and hidden techniques can significantly enhance your enjoyment of life. These skills should be out in the open and we should teach them to the masses. Everyone should have better sex and a better life.”

The Event will be held from 7pm – 9pm at Paradise Mexican Grill in Marietta Ga. 3605 Sandy Plains Rd. Marietta Ga 3006 # # # #

Here we are at the Holiday time of the year once again. It’s a time for reflection, for gratitude, for family and friends. And for many of us … it is also a time of depression. We call it “the Holiday Blues.” It comes in many forms, for me .. it’s the passing of my mother six years ago, my divorce and the alienation from my children and step children that clouds these holidays. For others, it’s the feeling of loneliness and loss that make the holidays a bit less cheery. Soooo I put together a little guide to make these times a bit easier to handle and maybe even … fun. Take a few minutes to read and digest this guide. It may allow you to have the best holiday ever.

Step One: Be easy on yourself.

Whatever is weighing heavy on your heart, be easy on yourself. It’s a time to forgive yourself. We all do the best we can with the tools we have at the moment. My parents weren’t perfect parents, and neither was I. We all made mistakes. Let that old junk go. It doesn’t serve anything positive and contributes to depression.

Step Two: Love yourself.

It is said, by those people who say such things, that the way to real love is starting with self love, for one cannot love anyone until one loves themselves. If you want more love in your life, start with yourself. You deserve to be happy. You deserve to be healthy, You deserve to be prosperous. You deserve the greatest joys that this human experience has to offer. The only question is, when are you going to accept it.

Step Three: Feel your feelings.

If something is really bothering you about the holidays, let those feeling be acknowledged. If you grieve for someone and have never let yourself cry and get through the grieving process, you will continue to be trapped by those feeling of grief. A good technique for letting go of these feeling is to write them down. Write a letter to this person and put down your feelings on paper. Take this paper and burn it letting those feeling escape with the flames. Feel the feeling and then let them go.

Step Four: Make a choice to be happy.

Our moods and attitudes can change in an instant. You can be in a good mod and hit your elbow and suddenly be really upset. At the same time, you can be really upset and have something ridiculous happen that just changes your mood in an instant. I’ll bet you can think of many examples. Were you ever mad at your child or pet and then they just did something soooo cute that you had to laugh out loud? This changed your mood in a split second. We have that power. The power of choice. We choose to be happy. Just as we choose to remember the bad times, we can choose to remember only the good times.

Step Five: Live in the moment.

Right now is all the time we ever have. The past is gone, the future may never arrive. All we have is the present. This moment right now. Waste it, and you waste your life. Grasp it, and you have captured the secret of life. There is an old saying that is wise beyond measure on this subject that says “The past is History, the future is a Mystery, and right now is a Gift ……. that is why it is called … The Present.”

Step Six: Be grateful.

We all have something that we are grateful for. In this time of the holidays, we forget just how lucky we are. We live in a free country where we can live where we want, work at the job we want, marry who we want, raise children how we want, and make as much money as we want. We have a fantastic education system where anyone can get an education. Every city has public libraries where we can access the internet, read books, listen to music, learn a new language and more all for free. Focus on the things that you have and you will find that you have more than you ever thought. Focus on what you don’t have and your life will be filled with lack. The choice is yours.

The holidays is a great time to purge clutter from your life. If you have old stuff hanging around, it is taking up the space that new and more exciting things should be. How can you have a new car if your garage is filled with junk? There is no place to put it. Chances are that if you cleaned up the space, sold the junk and gave away the rest, You will have a space that is ready accept new and different blessings into your life and you may get a few bucks to pay for that car in the process.

Step Seven: Expect to have fun with the holidays.

Often times our expectations determine our outcome. If we expect to be disappointed, we will find a way to make that happen. Contrastingly, if we expect to be happy and have fun, this will also manifest in your life. You have made the choice to have fun, now let it show up in your life and in your hilidays.

Make this holiday season the best ever. Use this guide and be prepared to have the best season ever, filled with love, laughter and happiness. It is your choice. YOU DESERVE IT.

Thanks for reading the blog. Since my motorcycle accident on May 12^th 2011, I haven’t been able to blog regularly. The concussion from the accident has affected my writing abilities and the pain from the back and shoulder injury has kept me in pain. I am making the choice to carry on. Thanks for your support. It’s been a long few months. If you like the blog …. tell a friend.

Brian Dee

Erotic Hypnotist

Is sex … hypnosis. This is a complex question. So let me begin with a simple statement answering a more simple question. Do we go into hypnosis during Sex. The answer is a resounding YES. Yes we do … let me explain How, Why, When and Why is is good for us.

Lets start with a brief explanation of what hypnosis is and how it is in our everyday lives. Hypnosis is a brainwave state that we all slip into when our minds are overloaded with stimulus. Our minds can only handle so much information before it vents out what it deems unimportant so that we can absorb new information. In the lightest state of hypnosis (the Hypnoidal state) we loose track of time while driving a car, we don’t hear people talking to us while we are focused on the TV or a video game.

We also engage our imagination and the more vivid our thoughts, the more real they can appear to be when we enter into this “Trance State.” Day dreaming is a great stress release because we use our imaginations and enter into this Hypnoidal state of hypnosis and vent out some excess information while visually imagining something pleasant. We are basically purging bad info. As a side effect, our visualization becomes more real as we have a concentrated focus on our vision or day dream.

This is where sex comes in. Once the day dream or visualization slips into the world of sexual fantasy, the subconscious does not know the difference between a vividly imagined day dream and the real thing. In fact, I will go on record as saying that it is my experience that this element of erotic fantasy is necessary for each person to achieve sexual satisfaction.

This element of fantasy is necessary for a man to get an erection and absolutely a necessity for a woman to have an orgasm. Physical stimulation is not enough.

If you look at most women when they orgasm, in the moments right before they “go over the edge” they have their eyes closed and are in fantasy thus tripling or quadrupling the intensity by the use of their fantasy thoughts. Many times, the right type of physical stimulation will trigger a past erotic experience that was very intense that is coupled through this “post hypnotic orgasm trigger.”

It is also possible to recreate this orgasm trigger in a regular hypnotic session. All that is necessary is the induction of deep trance and the suggestion of physical stimulation by transference. Deep trance is induced and the person is told to imagine a pleasurable touch stroking a pleasurable part of their body. Compounding this suggestion will intensify the feeling until the moment of “going over the edge” into orgasm. Hypnotic induced orgasms are many times much more intense than typical orgasms.

Put plainly .. when we fantasize during sex … we have better orgasms and more reliable orgasms.

The use of this natural organic hypnotic fantasy and the right physical touch can result in the five distinct orgasms.

1. The Vaginal orgasm – “ get up and go to work-gasm”
2. The Clitoral orgasm – “ this is good sex-gasm”
3. The G-spot orgasm – “ this is very good sex-gasm”
4. The body orgasm – G spot and Clitoral “ I can’t move right now-gasm”
5. The “SuperGasm” where a woman will have a clitoral orgasm, a g-spot orgasm, a body orgasm and the fantasy orgasm simultaneously (and at the same time ..) “the “my god you **** like a rock star-gasm … I can’t move right now and don’t you move either … I may have passed out .. and I’m drooling”

For each of these situations, the use of fantasy is the triggering factor. Natural organic hypnotic fantasy will enhance any sexual relationship and result in more reliable orgasmic satisfaction. It is healthy for us and happens naturally during sex.. why not play with these concepts a bit and see how they could fit for you and your partner. This type of play develops intimacy and promotes sharing.

So to sum in all up .. “Is Sex … Hypnosis” …… “NO” … “but good sex .. IS.”

I hope you found this article fun, funny and informative.